How can I dissolve some of the tension with my mother in law?

There are few relationships as trying as a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Sadly, many mothers resent their son's marriage and find fault with the new woman in their son's life rather than taking the new daughter under her wing. Of course, some daughters-in-law create problems or contribute to them. Making matters worse is that there is often a frustrated man in the middle.

To soothe over difficult feelings, especially if there are harsh words or critical comments, be sure to display a rooster in the southwest corner. This will help to stop the back and forth remarks that do nothing but build resentments. This year, the addition of metal in the southwest corner will also help to soothe some of the ruffled feathers. Two smooth crystal balls in the southwest corner are another traditional way to make females more convivial and improve the bond between mother- and daughter-in-law.